Intervention is never to be coercive or threatening:
In the event that our intervention “candidate” refuses to accept the care that has been offered, team members shall be encouraged to follow appropriate measures for self-care. Even if our intended refuses recovery options through our intervention efforts, you will be prepared to uphold on-going motivational leverage or “actions of self-preservation” that your deem appropriate. Such actions of self-care include the cessation of old patterns of interaction that have served to “enable” or help your loved one to remain on a path of progressive deterioration.

Your statement of self-preservation:
Through the intervention planning process, the entire “family system” is provided a path toward mutual well-being. Family Intervention must never involve rude or coercive "bottom line leverage" to force unwanted change in another. We learn how not to help or "enable" the user to destroy their life with addictive behavior. And we become clear as to exactly how to uphold ourselves and our future wellbeing. These actions, within their own-right, come to exert an ongoing motivational influence for your loved one. The motivation to “awaken to reality”. We are compassionately (and realistically) encouraging the abuser to take constructive actions and reestablish their physical, mental, and behavioral health.

I have an appointment with live.
                    -- and I intend to keep it!
Many intervention participants elect to deliver to their loved-one a clear statement of self-preservation . Such statements are deemed appropriate regardless of our intended’s decision to accept the care plan (personal recovery or hospital drug treatment options) that we offer. Such messages may also be stated as personal safeguards or safety precautions. Through your involvement in the intervention process, you may initiate clear actions and state your intentions to remain true to yourself. Intervention helps you protect yourself, your family, or professional group.